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Stay connected to the school

Join the PTO or booster clubs

This is a great way to make contact with other parents, support your kids school and have some influence on what happens there. There is often a Board of Ed member on these committees so you get to meet with someone influential in your child's education. For a non-custodial parent, this again connects you to what's happening in your child's life.

Other events

There are plant sales, bake sales, class parents (often termed class mother) and other activities. These often require that you be available during school time however. Other fund raising events such as car washes are held on weekends. Helping out or organizing these events can also help link you to your child's life.

Go present in your child's classroom

  • Have a hobby that you enjoy?

  • Been to a foreign country lately?

  • Have an interesting job?

  • Share it with the kids. Contact the teacher to arrange it. They will help you gear it to the kids level and they especially love it if it also links in with part of their curriculum.

Class projects

Often kids have projects to do for school. This is another opportunity to connect. Praise and encouragement honestly given are the best gift you can give your child. They often may have difficulty starting since the project may just seem too big for them. Guiding them on where they might find information or resources will help them over that hurdle. Do not do the project for them though. Pointing them in the right direction and encouraging them are the best tools.

Recitals and performances

Again another chance to connect.

  • Be there

  • Wave

  • Smile

  • Take photos or video

  • Meet and praise them afterwards

  • Bring a gift or go out to celebrate afterwards

For a non-custodial parent, you may not be able to do all these things at the
time depending on your arrangement. Do so at the next available opportunity.