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What can kids learn from Christmas? |
Faceless giving does little to teach our kids the true meaning of giving. When did the spirit of giving turn into the spirit of consumerism? Our kids of all ages are targeted by advertising aimed at raising the “nag factor”. The nag factor is the effort kids put into persuading their parents to buy them a particular product. Advertisers want to raise the kid’s desire for their product to the point where they will get the parent to buy it for them or to get the money to buy it themselves. It is also concerning that we are giving kids allowances and advertisers target that money too.
Are the gifts our children receive or give driven by this advertising?
Of course they are. We as adults are not immune to advertising but our
children are especially vulnerable. How can we counter this?
Helping
charities at Christmas is one way many parents try to show their
children the true gift of giving. Kids collect toys or coats or food
for charities and can really learn a lot from the experience. However
our children are still insulated from the consequence of their giving.
They do not see the children who benefit from their charity. Not seeing
the impact of their giving has to dilute the positive effect on a child.
I
would argue that our children need to see the impact of their giving.
This does not mean that they have to physically meet the people they
help though that is an option too. What about including a note with the
charity gift written by the child? The child receiving this gift or
even the parent receiving this gift might take the time to reply to
your child telling them of the impact they have had on that family.
What
if children raise money or gifts for an orphanage? How about a video of
the children receiving their gifts? What joy our children would get
seeing the effect of their gift giving on those orphans!
The
advertisers use powerful techniques to influence us and our kids. The
power in seeing the wonder and excitement on the faces of those
receiving gifts from your child can truly be as powerful if not more
powerful than advertising.
I would argue it is not enough any
more to give a dollar or a can of food to a charity at your local
church or supermarket. That faceless giving cannot have the power to
change your child’s world view and it is time we stepped up and showed
our kids the true meaning of giving. Can we afford not to?
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